Is Sex A Problem In Your Relationship?

couple struggling with sex problem in relationship

Ever wondered why so many relationships go from ‘hot sex’ to ‘no sex’?

Or at least ‘not very often’ sex?

We’ll explain exactly why this happens very shortly…

And more importantly, EXACTLY what to do to fix things with your partner.

And how – by this time next month – you could both be enjoying more passionate, connected, and fulfilling sex than when you first met…

…even if right now, that seems like a million miles away.

couple rekindling sexual desire in a long term relationship

Do you remember the days when you couldn’t wait to leap into bed together?

The sex was fun, exciting, and everything felt effortless.

Sadly for most couples, over time this exciting passion disappears without a trace.

And before they know it, one person is frustrated because they want more sex…

While the other, it seems, would rather do anything else.

Now, when we say ‘sex is a problem’ we really mean you’re one of these 2 people:

Person A: You’re not having as much sex as you want…

Person B: You’re rarely in the mood for sex – in fact it often feels like a chore.

In our world, we refer to person A as ‘The High Desire Person’ and person B as ‘The Low Desire Person’.

Generally we find if you’re person A, your partner is person B – and vice-versa.

Which one are you?

It’s easy to figure out:

Are you the one wanting more sex, or the one feeling pressure to have more sex?

If it’s the first one, you’re the high desire person. The second, the low desire person.

Why is this important?

Well, depending on which camp you’re in, you’re feeling differently about your problem.

In the red corner – the high-desire person…

high-desire partner frustrated about lack of sex in relationship

Over time, the high-desire person feels increasingly unwanted and unloved.

The constant rejection of hearing the word ‘no’ over and over again – for years, even decades in some cases – has made initiating sex painful and anxiety-ridden. In some cases, they’ve stopped trying to initiate altogether.

Right now they don’t feel attractive or desirable. In fact, they feel unlovable at times as the question ‘why don’t you want me?’ constantly buzzes around their head.

high-desire partner frustrated about lack of sex in relationship

They’ve tried bringing up the issue with their partner – but it just turns into an argument. Now it’s just a ‘known problem’ that’s rarely spoken about.

So most of the time they suffer in silence.

Most people think that it’s just about sex – but what they crave deep down is connection. They love their partner, and they want to feel close to them, but instead they feel shut down and shut out.

Their relationship has started to feel lonely, isolating, and disconnected. And with no solution in sight, they’re left wondering how long they can carry on like this.

In the blue corner – the low desire person…

low-desire partner frustrated about lack of desire in relationship

Meanwhile, the low-desire person wonders if they’re broken.

“Why did I used to enjoy sex, but now never seem to be in the mood? What kind of normal person doesn’t want to have sex with their partner?”

If they’re really honest with themselves, they’d prefer to finish off chores than make time for sex.

But they know their partner feels unwanted and unloved. So they feel guilty for having caused that pain.

They feel ashamed for not being able to give them what they want and need.

And as crazy as it sounds, they miss sex too. They want to want it. They want to feel sexy, alive, and turned on – but they just don’t.

There’s also the part of them that’s irritated with feeling pressured all the time. Like they have this constant weight hanging over them. A ticking clock in their heads “it’s been 7 days since we had sex. Now 10. Oh god, now it’s 14 days. I’d better do it soon.”

high-desire partner frustrated about lack of sex in relationship

In many cases they force themselves to have sex to keep their partner happy – they fear their partner will cheat or leave them otherwise.

But it’s really not about the fear of cheating.

It’s about the loss of connection – in both corners.

Neither person wants it to be this way.

They remember the early days when they were full of rampant hot passion and desire.

They were so full of want for each other. It was so… exciting!

Where did that excitement go? And how do they get it back?

Is it even possible to get that passion and desire back?

Well, we’ll let you decide for yourself as you read the rest of this page.

But here’s what Amy R. has to say about it:

He’s learning how to fire me up so I really want him

He’s learning how to fire me up so I really want him

Amy R, United States

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“My husband and I of 23 years marriage were at a very low point in our sexual relationship. I felt bored, uninspired, and disengaged, and he felt frustrated and unloved. After working with Jodie & Reece, the end results for my husband and I are:

• A better understanding of how to manage our different desire levels.
• Developing better communication skills in the bedroom to let one another know what’s working and what’s not.
• Experimenting more, and finding ways to make our sexual relationship more rewarding.
• He’s learning how to fire me up so I really want him… And I don’t feel broken anymore!

I highly recommend doing this work if you want to feel good about your sexuality and your sexual relationship with your partner. This may well have saved our marriage!”

Amy explains how after 23 years of marriage, she felt bored, uninspired, and disengaged (the low desire partner).

Meanwhile, her husband felt frustrated and unloved (the high desire partner).

After just a few weeks of implementing the process we’re about to show you, they’ve rediscovered the passion and desire they thought they’d lost forever.

Sparks are flying in the bedroom for the first time in years.

Not only is she delighted with this – her husband is too! And as she says…

“This may well have saved our marriage.”

How did we help them do this?

All will be revealed very shortly…

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We joke about the ‘red and blue corner’, yet…

Most couples are unable to talk about their sexual problems – at least not without a blazing row.

What happens is these negative emotions lead to resentment on both sides.

As the years tick by, this resentment grows and grows.

From a small irritation that could be handled early on, suddenly the relationship can’t be fixed.

You see, sex splits up more couples than you might imagine.

In a study by Gigy & Kelly in The Journal of Divorce & Marriage, 80% of divorced couples said that a breakdown of closeness and intimacy was the cause.

lack of sex and desire causing couple to fight

They don’t actually say ‘it’s because of sex’ – but it’s not exactly hard to make a mental leap here.

A low-sex marriage creates loneliness and resentment, and it drives couples apart.

Now we’re not saying that divorce will definitely happen.

Because that’s really not what this is about.

It’s not about ‘avoiding divorce’.

It’s about creating a relationship consisting of two passionate lovers who wouldn’t consider splitting up from each other in a million years.

So now you have two choices…

This isn’t a problem that will go away.

And it definitely won’t fix itself on its own.

So it’s really up to you to decide how important this is. Can you carry on like this forever? Can your partner carry on like this forever?

Or is this the moment you draw a line in the sand and declare…

“Enough is enough! I’m going to do whatever it takes to fix the sex problem.”

You only have two choices:

1. Commit that you and your partner are going to do whatever is necessary to fix this problem, or…

2. Do nothing.

high-desire partner frustrated about lack of sex in relationship

You may think ‘I’m ready to fix this, but I don’t think my partner is willing to do anything.’

So we’ll also explain exactly how even the most prickly, sensitive partner can be turned around – so they not only agree to work on this, they are DELIGHTED and EXCITED about it too!

More on that in a moment, but first – an important question…

unhappy couple trying to reignite sexless relationship

What happens if nothing changes?

The truth is that relationships that don’t fix this problem are DOOMED.

Even if you don’t split up, the relationship becomes a shell. Just two flatmates going through the motions.

That may sound dramatic, but that’s the sad reality many couples face.

Both sides ignore it for years and just hope things will improve.

But it NEVER, ever gets better on its own.

Usually it gets worse, year after year. At best it stays stagnant.

unhappy couple suffering from dead bedroom

So let’s imagine the best-case scenario:

Let’s say you both stay together and never split up, despite the festering ‘sex problem’. There’s no cheating, no messing around. You still get on reasonably well and you’re good friends.

But that’s as good as it can get.

Are you willing to accept this lack of connection and frustration on both sides? Is that really the best you can do?

So at this point you might be wondering …

How did we get ourselves into this situation, and what can we do about it?

The truth is… it’s unlikely you or your partner did anything ‘wrong’.

You see, almost every relationship will end up in the ‘sex problem’ zone – where you’re struggling to make things happen and reminiscing about how things used to be.

And unless you’re ready for it – and know EXACTLY what to do – you get stuck here forever.

It’s because relationships have 2 distinct phases that many people are completely unaware of:

1. The Honeymoon Phase

couple enjoying the honeymoon phase of a new relationship

This is when the relationship still feels ‘new’.

The sex is passionate. You both find yourself thinking about it a lot and looking forward to it.

Both your brains and bodies are full of pair-bonding chemicals like oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins (in other words, your brain quite literally makes you excited and happy to be with your partner).

You’re learning things about each other all the time.

Enjoying drinks, dinners, fun trips away. The world feels like one big exciting adventure that you’re exploring together.

And the sex happens naturally.

2. The Relationship Phase

couple enjoying the honeymoon phase of a new relationship

Somewhere between 6 months to 2 years, the relationship transitions.

The comedown from the Honeymoon Phase hits like a ton of bricks.

That loved-up chemical cocktail wears off, and you’re suddenly left with a sex life that looks totally different:

You’re two busy, complex human beings with different needs and different rhythms, trying to manage the messiness of life together, and still find the time and energy for sex.

You still love each other – perhaps in a more real and honest way than you ever could in the Honeymoon Phase, but…

The sex doesn’t happen spontaneously anymore (or at least if it does, nowhere near as often).

At this point, most people make the mistake of thinking that there’s a problem with their relationship.

Actually this is what’s SUPPOSED to happen. And – if you know exactly how to manage it – the Relationship Phase can be much more fulfilling than the Honeymoon Phase.

You can think of the Honeymoon Phase as ‘exciting exploration’ and the Relationship Phase as ‘deep, authentic connection’.

The intensity of the first phase is great, but us humans ultimately crave a deeper, long-term connection.

That said, they don’t have to be mutually exclusive.

If you know how, you can enjoy the passion and excitement of the Honeymoon Phase AND the connection and intimacy of long-term partnership – the best of both worlds, right?

man wondering how to manage relationship phase

“So how do I manage this Relationship Phase that I find myself in?”

The most important thing to realize here is that:

The same things that worked in The Honeymoon Phase no longer work in The Relationship Phase.

You see, the new relationship pair-bonding chemicals have gone…

…and that’s how it should be!

Can you imagine what life would be like if you just wandered around all day obsessing over the idea of sex with your partner?

You’d literally never get anything else done.

This is how things need to evolve in order for a long-term relationship to develop beyond sex. Because there are many other priorities that have to be managed.

And so the priority of sex plummets from the top of the list to somewhere below doing the food shop, feeding the kids, hanging the washing out… and the billion other jobs on your list.

Hence your relationship has changed – as it was supposed to – and so your relationship with sex needs to change too.

So…

You can no longer expect sex to happen spontaneously and effortlessly.

And you can no longer expect you (or your partner) to magically get in the mood without any effort.

unhappy couple expecting sex to happen spontaneously

You need an entirely new way of initiating sex, because making sex happen in the Relationship Phase requires a totally different approach to the Honeymoon phase (we’ll explain exactly how to do this shortly).

Yes, sex may ‘just happen’ from time to time…

But you can no longer EXPECT sex to occur spontaneously every single time with zero intention or focus – or for your old ‘moves’ to work like they used to.

This can take some couples time to come to terms with.

Expectations like ‘but sex should just happen!’ and ‘but isn’t it unromantic and unsexy to have to make sex happen intentionally?’ get in the way.

But once they accept that this is how it is, they realize the real key…

It’s about learning how to transition from ‘not in the mood’ to ‘I want it right now!’

Most low desire partners think ‘I’m not in the mood’, so sex doesn’t happen.

The high desire partner waits and waits for them to get in the mood, getting increasingly impatient.

Meanwhile, the anxiety increases for both partners as they notice the ‘time since sex last happened’ clock increasing daily.

couple feeling anxious about lack of sex

If both of you genuinely want to fix the sex problem, it’s really important to accept two things:

1. The low desire person needs to go through a specific process to ‘get in the mood’. It isn’t going to happen magically.

2. It’s BOTH of your responsibility to help the low desire person manage this.

Number 2 is especially important because we want to move away from the guilt, shame, and frustration on both sides and agree that as a couple…

…this is something we need to fix TOGETHER.

It’s not ‘well it’s your problem, let me know when you’ve got it handled’.

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We know all this because we had our very own ‘sex problem’ a few years ago…

Hi, by the way!

We’re Reece (44) and Jodie (35).

And for reals we didn’t always look this happy.

high-desire partner frustrated about lack of sex in relationship

We’d been together about 18 months when it started.

It was gradual at first. We went from a healthy, fulfilling sex life, to only once or twice a month… Then even less than that.

Reece would try to initiate, only to get rejected and shut down (the high desire partner).

Jodie felt pressured and guilty for not wanting it more (the low desire partner). Yet powerless to do anything about it.

The constant arguments left us feeling frustrated, resentful, disconnected, and totally alone.

We blamed faulty libidos and busy schedules.

And at our worst – we blamed each other.

It was easily one of the most painful challenges we’ve ever faced in our relationship.

One day, we sat down and had a very serious talk.

A talk where we agreed to have no name-calling, no blaming, no shouting or arguing.

Just a straightforward ‘what are we going to do about this?’

So we made a declaration…

Whatever it took, however long it took, however difficult it was…

…we were going to figure out how to fix this – together.

So we did what anyone would do at this point – we Googled it!

And to say we were disappointed with what we found would be an understatement.

Because instead of helpful, practical advice, there were instead articles like this one in the Daily Mail:

unhappy couple trying to reignite sexless relationship

How judgemental is that towards the low desire partner?

“Just stop being lazy, low desire partner! Even if you couldn’t imagine anything worse right now, toughen up and have sex with your partner – or you’ll lose them and die early!”

Ergh… We didn’t want to go down this path.

Reece didn’t want Jodie to force herself to have sex with him out of shame and fear she might lose him.

And Jodie didn’t want to force herself into sex either.

(No one wants their partner to lay there feeling obligated to have ‘maintenance sex’. That’s the opposite of what sexual intimacy is about.)

Reece wanted Jodie to want and enjoy sex with him.

Jodie herself wanted to want and enjoy sex with Reece.

There had to be a better way.

So we carried on Googling…

We continued searching the internet and got unhelpful advice like ‘wear lingerie’.

That did nothing.

Then it was ‘spice things up’ – what does that even mean?

We’re not exactly whips and chains kinda people. We don’t want to engage in ‘partner swapping’ or eat whipped cream off each other.

high-desire partner frustrated about lack of sex in relationship

Then there was the least helpful suggestion – ‘try this superfood smoothie to boost your hormones and solve all your problems!’

(Spoiler alert – most desire problems have absolutely nothing to do with hormones).

So we decided to go deeper…

We read about the latest, cutting-edge science on human sexuality and desire. We took courses on Tantric and Taoist sexual arts, and Western sexology. And just to be sure, we took trainings in relationship communication, too.

We went ‘full power sex geek’ – and what we learned completely blew our minds:

Almost everything we’d ever learned about sex was wrong.

This meant the way we were approaching sex was also completely wrong.

Everything we’d been trying was only putting more pressure on Jodie, and making Reece feel even more unwanted.

But now we saw the Matrix, and our approach to sex completely transformed.

You see, the real answer to the problem wasn’t about ‘spicing things up’, or boosting hormones, or ‘don’t be lazy’, it was something completely different and unexpected.

The answer appeared when we understood the REAL reason for Jodie’s drop in desire (it’s nothing to do with physical attraction either)…

Despite Reece’s worst fears, it wasn’t that Jodie was no longer attracted to him.

In fact, after working with couples for almost a decade – from couples in their 20s up to their 60s and 70s… all kinds of shapes, sizes and appearances…

We can safely say that it’s never, ever about ‘looks’.

You see, physical appearance is a tiny part of what could cause two people to be attracted to each other.

And if they were attracted to each other once, chances are that feeling is still in there somewhere – it’s just hidden.

What’s really responsible for the ‘sex problem’ is something that sexuality researchers from the Kinsey Institute have named ‘The Dual Control Model of Sexual Response’.

Or as we like to call them – your ‘brakes and accelerators’.

Once we learned about this and implemented it, everything suddenly made sense.

We never thought about it this way before, but this groundbreaking research showed us that for every person there are things that increase desire (accelerators) and things that decrease desire (brakes).

Turns out Jodie wasn’t broken.

Instead, her brakes were on – permanently.

Brakes are more than just your sexual ‘turn offs’. They’re much broader and all-encompassing.

Science has shown that your brain is constantly scanning your environment for all of the reasons that sex is not a good idea right now.

Some people are more sensitive to these brakes – and other people less so – which is why we were seeing such a difference in our desire levels.

We both had to learn about Jodie’s brakes – and how to turn them off – if we were ever going to fix our ‘sex problem’.

Turns out each person has their own unique set of brakes, and therefore has their own unique Blueprint to release the brakes.

But the tragedy is that not only do most people have no idea what this Blueprint is or how to implement it…

…they have no idea that brakes even exist in the first place!

They go through their sexual life completely powerless. Completely out of control.

It’s only when they learn how to take charge and manage their brakes that they notice their sexual desire suddenly reappear!

Our sex life has transformed

Our sex life has transformed

Mr & Mrs Harris, Married 12 years

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“Before working with Jodie & Reece we were lost. We loved each other, yet we didn’t know how to reconnect to our spark and passion. Work and life had taken over, and being intimate with each other was something that didn’t happen. We tried marriage counselors, but sex was the taboo topic that they never brought up, and we didn’t feel comfortable to bring up.

A few months later we are ecstatic at how far we’ve come. Jodie & Reece pushed our comfort zones and our mindsets to help us reconnect. Our sex life has transformed and we can’t thank them enough. Investing in ourselves and our marriage was the best thing we ever did.”

This is exactly what happened to Mr and Mrs Harris from Australia.

In the words above, they talk about how ‘work and life had taken over’ and ‘we didn’t know how to reconnect to our spark and passion.’

That’s code for ‘the brakes were on and we didn’t know how to release them’.

Once we showed them exactly how, their sex life transformed – fast.

You see, the low desire partner’s sexual desire is still there – it’s just hidden!

For many low desire partners, releasing the brakes is enough for them to feel that strong sexual desire again.

It’s like a window that’s covered in gunk, dirt, and grime.

You can’t see a thing through it due to all the muck.

Releasing the brakes is like taking a cloth and wiping all this rubbish away so you can see clearly again.

couple sexually reconnecting

In most cases, this is when the low desire partner suddenly ‘sees’ their sexual desire – sometimes for the first time in decades.

They feel a sense of excitement, joy, and playfulness as they reconnect with something wonderful they thought had gone forever.

And obviously the high desire partner isn’t too upset about this either…

Once the brakes are released, we can then press down on the accelerator…

People also have a number of very specific accelerators that help to ramp up desire.

The more accelerators you discover, the better the sex.

But you have to press the right accelerator at the right time. Otherwise it suddenly turns into a brake.

This is why understanding you and your partner’s Sexual Blueprint is so important.

That said, even if you ignored the accelerators and did nothing else other than release the brakes…

…your sex life is about to get VERY exciting again!

This is what happened to us – and we’re not exaggerating when we say it saved our relationship.

Even if we stayed together, there’s no way we could have been as playful, connected, and intimate as we are today.

We’re enjoying sex as much as we did in the early days. In fact…

We’re enjoying it more than we ever have – because there’s no more blame, pressure, or expectation.

Sex is fun, playful, pleasurable, connected AND it just flows.

We no longer see it as a ‘problem’ if either one of us isn’t in the mood.

Because we know we can get ourselves in the mood in no time at all.

Fast forward 8 years (+1 wedding) later and we’re happy to say that we have well and truly fixed ‘the sex problem’.

We now enjoy much more regular sex. We don’t fight about it anymore. And best of all, we now connect in ways we never did before.

Now it’s your turn…

We’ve created a self-study program that you can work through in private, in the comfort of your own home.

Nobody has to know you’re doing this. And you definitely won’t be asked to turn up to any group workshops and lay bare all the gory details of your sex life for complete strangers to gawk over.

This is between you, your partner, and nobody else.

So, with your permission, we’d love to introduce…

The

Reignite Your Love Life

Home Study Course
re-ignite your love life course

This is your step by step guide to rekindling desire and initiating sex in your relationship.

In just 4 short modules, we’ll show you exactly:

Your personal Sexual Blueprint: know exactly how to connect and get each other in the mood by understanding each other’s unique brakes and accelerators…

How to reawaken a ‘dead bedroom’ – even if you’ve not had sex for years…

The right and wrong way to initiate sex (do it right and sex is on tonight’s menu, do it wrong and you kill the low desire partner’s confidence and ensure sex is even less likely in the future)…

The right and wrong way to respond when your partner is initiating…

How to remove all the pressure and anxiety around sex…

The truth about libido and sex drive (low libido is not a real thing – your sexual desire is still there, it just needs to be stoked in the right way)…

What to do if you desire sex often – and what to do if you don’t…

How to say ‘no’ without destroying your partner’s confidence…

Why the concept of ‘Sex Agreements’ is one of the most important things you can add to your sex life…

‘Sexy Contexts’ – how to implement these little-known but super fun elements into your relationship…

How to heal the toxic resentments destroying your sex life…

The hidden relationship dynamic every couple MUST master – but very few do…

How to form a ‘Collaborative Sex Alliance’…

The art of making sex happen consistently and effortlessly…

What to do to become LOVERS again – instead of just housemates…

How to STAY lovers and make sure you never – EVER – enter the ‘housemate zone’ again!

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Here’s what you get in each module of this simple step-by-step system:

MODULE 1
 

The 3 Sex Perspectives

One of the biggest issues of the ‘Sex Problem’ is that any mention of it can cause endless arguments or shutdown.

That’s why we need to start with The 3 Sex Perspectives – because they completely overhaul how we look at sex.

In fact, couples report that just from watching this short video, they instantly both feel excited and full of hope again. In some cases after decades of accepting ‘well, this is just how it is’, they realize…

“It’s possible to fix this problem and we’re going to do it together!”

The pressure and anxiety in their sex life dissolves, and resentments are melted away.

By the end of the module, you’ll BOTH feel like a team working towards your common goal – hot, pressure-free sex like you enjoyed in the Honeymoon Phase.

MODULE 2:
 

Your Sexual Blueprint

This is a detailed, no-stone-unturned deep dive to help you finally understand your unique Sexual Blueprint.

With a research-backed quiz to give you a personalized look at how your brain and body actually works, and a step-by-step assessment process, you finally understand why sex hasn’t been working in the past – and the exact steps to fix it.

You’re going to discover your personal brakes and accelerators for you – and your partner.

And you’re going to know EXACTLY what turns both of you on – and what turns you off.

We’ll also be running through a simple yet effective exercise to deepen your emotional connection – and get you connecting physically again in a low-pressure, no-expectation way.

MODULE 3:

Ignite Desire

This is where we really start to have fun!

At this point, you know what flicks the switch on and off for you and your partner – and now we’re going to help you flick those switches – together!

With a spirit of play and experimentation, you’ll explore all your new accelerators, and work out how to press them in the RIGHT order – together.

You’ll finally understand how to ‘remove the brakes’ so you and your partner experience that feeling of HOT desire again (it’s likely welcoming a dear old friend back into your life!)

We’ve also got some fun, refreshing, guaranteed-you’ve-never-tried-before exercises to launch you into a whole new world of connected, intimate – and in some cases even transcendental sex!

(They’re totally optional, but just know that these exercises personally transformed our sex life 🤯😍)

There’s no pressure for anything to happen right now, but many couples find themselves spontaneously enjoying great sex by this point in the process.

MODULE 4:

Initiation Mastery

Initiating sex can produce all kinds of anxiety.

If you’re the high desire partner, you worry you’ll get rejected again. And if you’re the low desire partner, you’re so used to just not wanting sex that the idea of initiating feels weird.

In this module, we show you the no-fail process we use ourselves to initiate sex.

It removes all the awkwardness out of getting started.

And on the rare occasions you’re really not into it (‘cause let’s face it, life’s still going to happen) – we show you exactly how to say ‘no’ without making your partner feel hurt or rejected.

But that said, you won’t hear no very often, because you’ll have a better understanding of when your partner’s in the mood – and what to do when they’re not.

couple rekindling sexual desire in a long term relationship

By the time they are done, our couples report that not only has their sex life transformed – they feel more connected, intimate, and loving towards each other than ever before!

Not only that, they have solved the ‘sex problem’ forever!

This is because of a few things:

Melting away all the hurt and resentment…

The deepened understanding of each other’s needs and wants – especially brakes and accelerators…

Taking the time to go through this process together and becoming a unified team.

After all, when you both sit down and say ‘I’m committed to this process, let’s do it’ – it’s a great sign for your relationship, isn’t it?

It’s both of you declaring ‘I’m committed to you and you’re committed to me. I don’t want to be with someone else, I want to be with you. I want this relationship to be as good as it can be.’

That in itself is a huge step.

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However, we usually find one person from the couple is reading this page initially.

Usually the high desire partner, but sometimes not.

And at this point, they always have the same question…

“But how do I get my partner on board with this?”

If you’re the low desire partner, it’s super easy:

Just tell them you’ve found this wonderful online course and you’d love to work through it with them, with the goal of getting your sex life back on track.

You’d love it to be something you work through together, as a couple.

We guarantee – they will be delighted to hear this!

If you’re the high desire partner, it’s a little bit trickier.

As you’ve probably noticed, if you bring up the issue of the ‘sex problem’, things can get very prickly, very fast.

Before you know it there’s blaming and shaming all over the place.

Obviously this isn’t productive and isn’t going to help.

So inside the course, we’ve provided word-for-word short scripts that you can say to your partner to explain why this is a good program for them.

These scripts are specially designed to make the low desire partner feel open and even eager to take the course with you – as opposed to feeling blamed or pressured.

They are simple, easy to follow, and remove all the guesswork over how to bring this up with your partner.

Most people are AMAZED at how well they work!

“What if I can’t convince my partner though?”

Now, we’ll be completely honest at this point – not every person in the world is going to be able to convince their partner.

The good news is you can still do the course on your own, and in most cases you’ll STILL be able to fix ‘the sex problem’.

(And if you can’t, we’ll give you your money back!)

We’ll explain how very shortly – but first, something very important:

The scripts work brilliantly well – but they don’t work for everyone.

The truth is that some relationships are just too far gone.

If you’ve suffered 30 years of ever-increasing resentment and bad feeling, this may be a bridge too far for you.

If you’re no longer attracted to each other…

If you no longer even like each other as people…

If you’re only together for the sake of it…

…then this probably isn’t for you.

But for everyone else, we encourage you to…

Give this system a test drive!

We know you’ll love it as much as we – and all of our delighted couples – do.

So here’s our promise…

If you click on the buy button today, here’s what we want you to do:

1. Run through the script to get your partner involved…

2. If they say no, go through the course on your own – there’s a very good chance you’ll be able to get them on board as you go through the material and you notice your own attitude to sex upgrading…

3. If you go through all 4 modules and still see no improvement in your sex life, just send us a short email for a prompt, cheerful refund within 30 days of purchase.

Simple.

We’ve never had to refund anybody up until now, but we recognize there’s a first time for everything.

And if you happen to be the 1 in 1000 person who our system doesn’t work for, we don’t think it’s right that you end up out of pocket.

We’ve made this totally risk-free – so there’s absolutely no reason not to at least give it a try. After all, you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain here.

And assuming you want and crave that passionate, intimate connection with your partner who you love…

…this is surely your only option right now, right?

Click the button below and you can join us on the inside. And in just a couple of minutes from now, as you click play on the first video, you’ll feel your sex life starting to get exciting again!

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PS – In case you’re one of those people who just scrolls to the bottom to read the summary…

Here’s the deal:

We’re going to give you access to the exact 4 step process we discovered as a couple when we had our own ‘sex problem’ some 8 years ago.

You’re going to discover:

Your personal Sexual Blueprint: know exactly how to connect and get each other in the mood by understanding each other’s unique brakes and accelerators…

How to reawaken a ‘dead bedroom’ – even if you’ve not had sex for years…

The right and wrong way to initiate sex (do it right and sex is on tonight’s menu, do it wrong and you kill the low desire partner’s confidence and ensure sex is even less likely in the future)…

The right and wrong way to respond when your partner is initiating…

How to remove all the pressure and anxiety around sex…

The truth about libido and sex drive (low libido is not a real thing – your sexual desire is still there, it just needs to be stoked in the right way)…

What to do if you desire sex often – and what to do if you don’t…

How to say ‘no’ without destroying your partner’s confidence…

Why the concept of ‘Sex Agreements’ is one of the most important things you can add to your sex life…

‘Sexy Contexts’ – how to implement these little-known but super fun elements into your relationship…

How to heal the toxic resentments destroying your sex life…

The hidden relationship dynamic every couple MUST master – but very few do…

How to form a ‘Collaborative Sex Alliance’…

The art of making sex happen consistently and effortlessly…

What to do to become LOVERS again – instead of just housemates…

How to STAY lovers and make sure you never – EVER – enter the ‘housemate zone’ again!

If you’re the high desire partner, you’ll suddenly find that hot sex is back on the menu.

And if you’re the low desire partner, you’ll suddenly find that you WANT sex again – and you enjoy it too!

This is a short, 4-module video program that you can either follow together with your partner, or on your own if you prefer.

All you do is watch the videos, then have some fun as you implement!

None of the exercises are difficult or hard to understand.

Yes, of course there’s some effort involved. But we’re sure you’ll agree it’s more than worth it.

And everything is done in the privacy of your own home.

You get instant access to all this for just $147.

And if for some reason this doesn’t work for you, just email us for a full, prompt, and cheerful refund within 30 days of purchase.

Sound good?

Plus – if you join right now – you get these great bonuses…

As an ‘ethical bribe’ to help you in the right direction, if you click the ‘get access’ button right now, we’ll also throw in:

BONUS #1:

The Magic Script

How do you get your partner on board?

You follow our magic script and your partner goes from ‘I don’t want to talk about this’ to ‘let’s do this together!’

Suddenly you’re now a team, rather than adversaries.

BONUS #2:

Conflict to Connection

We sell this every day as a full course on our website – but if you join today we’ll throw it in for free!

The powerful teachings here show you how to expertly navigate conflicts – so you both feel heard and you reach a resolution you’re both happy with – without name-calling, sniping, silent treatment, door slamming, and all the huffing and puffing that usually goes along with disagreements.

This course alone is well worth the price, and you get it for free!

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My whole attitude to sex has changed

My whole attitude to sex has changed

Jeff M, United States

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“I’d been stuck in a sexless marriage for years. Between three kids and two demanding careers, I’d kind of given up hope that things would get better. At least until the kids grew up and left home.

Since taking this course my whole attitude to sex has changed. It’s helped me to stop blaming my wife and show me how I can help get her in the mood. If you’ve got your own ‘sex problem’, I can’t recommend this course highly enough!”

Our relationship has rediscovered that amazing sexual connection…

Our relationship has rediscovered that amazing sexual connection…

Jason & Marianna, Australia

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“Thank you Jodie & Reece for all the work you’ve shared. I was feeling lost in my relationship a year ago until my friend suggested you guys. You’ve helped our relationship grow and rediscover that amazing sexual connection.”

My partner initiated twice in the last week!

My partner initiated twice in the last week!

Gabriella, United States

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“We’d been struggling with our sex life for years, and after being rejected time and time again I’d pretty much given up initiating. Even though my partner said he was still attracted to me, he was never in the mood. We’d had ‘the talk’ so many times, but nothing ever changed. When I found this course I was close to giving up completely, so it was a bit of a Hail Mary.

This course helped us do a complete 180. It’s helped me to understand my own sex drive better, and my partner’s too. I understand what my partner needs, and he better understands how to initiate. He’s gone from never initiating, to initiating twice in just the last week! We honestly couldn’t be happier with this course.

Sex is just easy now!

Sex is just easy now!

Dominic & Lauren, United States

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“Not gonna lie – it took some hard work and some uncomfortable conversations about what wasn’t working. But we got through it. And best of all is that sex is just easy now!”

We're being open and honest about sex

We're being open and honest about sex

Sylvia P, England

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“We just completed module 2 and got really into it! It was wonderful to experience both of us being open and honest about all the things we needed to talk about (but didn’t know how), and to have a new way of thinking on the topic of sex!

I have a better understanding and knowledge about the dynamic of our primal desires as two unique individuals, and it is a good roadmap and key piece of the foundation of our healthy marriage we are building. I’m so excited about finally being able to talk about sex and get the energy moving positively here <3”

Thanks for bringing sex out into the open

Thanks for bringing sex out into the open

Micaela & Santiago, Spain

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“Reece & Jodie – you’ve turned a difficult conversation into something that my husband and I can now openly discuss without fear of judgment or ridicule… Thanks for bringing sex out into the open, and for making these topics current and cool discussions!”

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ONLY $147 TODAY

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