Ever wondered why so many relationships go from ‘hot sex’ to ‘no sex’?

Or at least ‘not very often’ sex?

We’ll explain exactly why this happens very shortly…

And more importantly, EXACTLY what to do to fix things with your partner.

And how – by this time next month – you could both be enjoying more passionate, connected, and fulfilling sex than when you first met…

…even if right now, that seems like a million miles away.

Do you remember the days when you couldn’t wait to leap into bed together?

The sex was fun, exciting, and everything felt effortless.

Sadly for most couples, over time this exciting passion disappears without a trace.

And before they know it, one person is frustrated because they want more sex…

While the other, it seems, would rather do anything else.

Now, when we say ‘sex is a problem’ we really mean you’re one of these 2 people:

Person A: You’re not having as much sex as you want…

Person B: You’re rarely in the mood for sex – in fact it often feels like a chore.

In our world, we refer to person A as ‘The High Desire Person’ and person B as ‘The Low Desire Person’.

Generally we find if you’re person A, your partner is person B – and vice-versa.

It’s easy to figure out:

Are you the one wanting more sex, or the one feeling pressure to have more sex?

If it’s the first one, you’re the high desire person. The second, the low desire person.

Why is this important?

Well, depending on which camp you’re in, you’re feeling differently about your problem.

Over time, the high-desire person feels increasingly unwanted and unloved.

The constant rejection of hearing the word ‘no’ over and over again – for years, even decades in some cases – has made initiating sex painful and anxiety-ridden. In some cases, they’ve stopped trying to initiate altogether.

Right now they don’t feel attractive or desirable. In fact, they feel unlovable at times as the question ‘why don’t you want me?’ constantly buzzes around their head.

They’ve tried bringing up the issue with their partner – but it just turns into an argument. Now it’s just a ‘known problem’ that’s rarely spoken about.

So most of the time they suffer in silence.

Most people think that it’s just about sex – but what they crave deep down is connection. They love their partner, and they want to feel close to them, but instead they feel shut down and shut out.

Their relationship has started to feel lonely, isolating, and disconnected. And with no solution in sight, they’re left wondering how long they can carry on like this.

Meanwhile, the low-desire person wonders if they’re broken.

“Why did I used to enjoy sex, but now never seem to be in the mood? What kind of normal person doesn’t want to have sex with their partner?”

If they’re really honest with themselves, they’d prefer to finish off chores than make time for sex.

But they know their partner feels unwanted and unloved. So they feel guilty for having caused that pain.

They feel ashamed for not being able to give them what they want and need.

And as crazy as it sounds, they miss sex too. They want to want it. They want to feel sexy, alive, and turned on – but they just don’t.

There’s also the part of them that’s irritated with feeling pressured all the time. Like they have this constant weight hanging over them. A ticking clock in their heads “it’s been 7 days since we had sex. Now 10. Oh god, now it’s 14 days. I’d better do it soon.”

In many cases they force themselves to have sex to keep their partner happy – they fear their partner will cheat or leave them otherwise.

But it’s really not about the fear of cheating.

It’s about the loss of connection – in both corners.

Neither person wants it to be this way.

They remember the early days when they were full of rampant hot passion and desire.

They were so full of want for each other. It was so… exciting!

Where did that excitement go? And how do they get it back?

Well, we’ll let you decide for yourself as you read the rest of this page.

But here’s what Amy R. has to say about it:

How did we get ourselves into this situation, and what can we do about it?

The truth is… it’s unlikely you or your partner did anything ‘wrong’.

You see, almost every relationship will end up in the ‘sex problem’ zone – where you’re struggling to make things happen and reminiscing about how things used to be.

And unless you’re ready for it – and know EXACTLY what to do – you get stuck here forever.

It’s because relationships have 2 distinct phases that many people are completely unaware of:

This is when the relationship still feels ‘new’.

The sex is passionate. You both find yourself thinking about it a lot and looking forward to it.

Both your brains and bodies are full of pair-bonding chemicals like oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins (in other words, your brain quite literally makes you excited and happy to be with your partner).

You’re learning things about each other all the time.

Enjoying drinks, dinners, fun trips away. The world feels like one big exciting adventure that you’re exploring together.

And the sex happens naturally.

Somewhere between 6 months to 2 years, the relationship transitions.

The comedown from the Honeymoon Phase hits like a ton of bricks.

That loved-up chemical cocktail wears off, and you’re suddenly left with a sex life that looks totally different:

You’re two busy, complex human beings with different needs and different rhythms, trying to manage the messiness of life together, and still find the time and energy for sex.

You still love each other – perhaps in a more real and honest way than you ever could in the Honeymoon Phase, but…

The sex doesn’t happen spontaneously anymore (or at least if it does, nowhere near as often).

How judgemental is that towards the low desire partner?

“Just stop being lazy, low desire partner! Even if you couldn’t imagine anything worse right now, toughen up and have sex with your partner – or you’ll lose them and die early!”

Ergh… We didn’t want to go down this path.

Reece didn’t want Jodie to force herself to have sex with him out of shame and fear she might lose him.

And Jodie didn’t want to force herself into sex either.

(No one wants their partner to lay there feeling obligated to have ‘maintenance sex’. That’s the opposite of what sexual intimacy is about.)

Reece wanted Jodie to want and enjoy sex with him.

Jodie herself wanted to want and enjoy sex with Reece.

There had to be a better way.

We continued searching the internet and got unhelpful advice like ‘wear lingerie’.

That did nothing.

Then it was ‘spice things up’ – what does that even mean?

We’re not exactly whips and chains kinda people. We don’t want to engage in ‘partner swapping’ or eat whipped cream off each other.

Then there was the least helpful suggestion – ‘try this superfood smoothie to boost your hormones and solve all your problems!’

(Spoiler alert – most desire problems have absolutely nothing to do with hormones).

So we decided to go deeper…

We read about the latest, cutting-edge science on human sexuality and desire. We took courses on Tantric and Taoist sexual arts, and Western sexology. And just to be sure, we took trainings in relationship communication, too.

Almost everything we’d ever learned about sex was wrong.

This meant the way we were approaching sex was also completely wrong.

Everything we’d been trying was only putting more pressure on Jodie, and making Reece feel even more unwanted.

But now we saw the Matrix, and our approach to sex completely transformed.

You see, the real answer to the problem wasn’t about ‘spicing things up’, or boosting hormones, or ‘don’t be lazy’, it was something completely different and unexpected.

Despite Reece’s worst fears, it wasn’t that Jodie was no longer attracted to him.

In fact, after working with couples for almost a decade – from couples in their 20s up to their 60s and 70s… all kinds of shapes, sizes and appearances…

We can safely say that it’s never, ever about ‘looks’.

You see, physical appearance is a tiny part of what could cause two people to be attracted to each other.

And if they were attracted to each other once, chances are that feeling is still in there somewhere – it’s just hidden.

What’s really responsible for the ‘sex problem’ is something that sexuality researchers from the Kinsey Institute have named ‘The Dual Control Model of Sexual Response’.

Or as we like to call them – your ‘brakes and accelerators’.

Once we learned about this and implemented it, everything suddenly made sense.

Turns out Jodie wasn’t broken.

Instead, her brakes were on – permanently.

Brakes are more than just your sexual ‘turn offs’. They’re much broader and all-encompassing.

Science has shown that your brain is constantly scanning your environment for all of the reasons that sex is not a good idea right now.

Some people are more sensitive to these brakes – and other people less so – which is why we were seeing such a difference in our desire levels.

We both had to learn about Jodie’s brakes – and how to turn them off – if we were ever going to fix our ‘sex problem’.

But the tragedy is that not only do most people have no idea what this Blueprint is or how to implement it…

…they have no idea that brakes even exist in the first place!

They go through their sexual life completely powerless. Completely out of control.

It’s only when they learn how to take charge and manage their brakes that they notice their sexual desire suddenly reappear!

This is exactly what happened to Mr and Mrs Harris from Australia.

In the words above, they talk about how ‘work and life had taken over’ and ‘we didn’t know how to reconnect to our spark and passion.’

That’s code for ‘the brakes were on and we didn’t know how to release them’.

Once we showed them exactly how, their sex life transformed – fast.

For many low desire partners, releasing the brakes is enough for them to feel that strong sexual desire again.

It’s like a window that’s covered in gunk, dirt, and grime.

You can’t see a thing through it due to all the muck.

Releasing the brakes is like taking a cloth and wiping all this rubbish away so you can see clearly again.

In most cases, this is when the low desire partner suddenly ‘sees’ their sexual desire – sometimes for the first time in decades.

They feel a sense of excitement, joy, and playfulness as they reconnect with something wonderful they thought had gone forever.

And obviously the high desire partner isn’t too upset about this either…

People also have a number of very specific accelerators that help to ramp up desire.

The more accelerators you discover, the better the sex.

But you have to press the right accelerator at the right time. Otherwise it suddenly turns into a brake.

This is why understanding you and your partner’s Sexual Blueprint is so important.

That said, even if you ignored the accelerators and did nothing else other than release the brakes…

This is what happened to us – and we’re not exaggerating when we say it saved our relationship.

Even if we stayed together, there’s no way we could have been as playful, connected, and intimate as we are today.

We’re enjoying sex as much as we did in the early days. In fact…

We’re enjoying it more than we ever have – because there’s no more blame, pressure, or expectation.

We no longer see it as a ‘problem’ if either one of us isn’t in the mood.

Because we know we can get ourselves in the mood in no time at all.

Fast forward 8 years (+1 wedding) later and we’re happy to say that we have well and truly fixed ‘the sex problem’.

We now enjoy much more regular sex. We don’t fight about it anymore. And best of all, we now connect in ways we never did before.

We’ve created a self-study program that you can work through in private, in the comfort of your own home.

Nobody has to know you’re doing this. And you definitely won’t be asked to turn up to any group workshops and lay bare all the gory details of your sex life for complete strangers to gawk over.

This is between you, your partner, and nobody else.

So, with your permission, we’d love to introduce…

Now, we’ll be completely honest at this point – not every person in the world is going to be able to convince their partner.

The good news is you can still do the course on your own, and in most cases you’ll STILL be able to fix ‘the sex problem’.

(And if you can’t, we’ll give you your money back!)

We’ll explain how very shortly – but first, something very important:

The truth is that some relationships are just too far gone.

If you’ve suffered 30 years of ever-increasing resentment and bad feeling, this may be a bridge too far for you.

If you’re no longer attracted to each other…

If you no longer even like each other as people…

If you’re only together for the sake of it…

…then this probably isn’t for you.

But for everyone else, we encourage you to…

We know you’ll love it as much as we – and all of our delighted couples – do.

So here’s our promise…

If you click on the buy button today, here’s what we want you to do:

1. Run through the script to get your partner involved…

2. If they say no, go through the course on your own – there’s a very good chance you’ll be able to get them on board as you go through the material and you notice your own attitude to sex upgrading…

3. If you go through all 4 modules and still see no improvement in your sex life, just send us a short email for a prompt, cheerful refund within 30 days of purchase.

Simple.

We’ve never had to refund anybody up until now, but we recognize there’s a first time for everything.

And if you happen to be the 1 in 1000 person who our system doesn’t work for, we don’t think it’s right that you end up out of pocket.

We’ve made this totally risk-free – so there’s absolutely no reason not to at least give it a try. After all, you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain here.

And assuming you want and crave that passionate, intimate connection with your partner who you love…

…this is surely your only option right now, right?

Click the button below and you can join us on the inside. And in just a couple of minutes from now, as you click play on the first video, you’ll feel your sex life starting to get exciting again!